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Post by Unega Uwohali Waya Adkins on Mar 11, 2008 21:58:04 GMT -6
O'syio (Hello) all, My Stepfather name is Terry, he died this morning at 9:30am.... He had cancer in his brain, can't healing good.... long story...... I had worked in my backyard with my new floor bricks for my new patio and I stomped the floor bricks too hard because of the ground is very tougher shape.... it ripped my back right muscle and in the middle bones has been slight crusted.... that hurting my back very bad for 2 weeks, I went to the Doctor today and checked on me. He gave me stronger medicines that'll make me drowsiness daily... I can't come to the computer for 2 weeks or so and see if my back is getting better then I'll be back with you all my good friends. My families and I will going to the Church, meetings and going to the Funeral Home this week.... Bellow picture of my mother White Feather - left, her hubby Terry and me right side with regular Horse. Pic took May, 2006 in Northeast, Texas by Oklahoma border river. Rest in Peace, Terry Spencer...... 1937 - 2008 Please praying for my family, wado (Thank you) Brothers and Sisters.
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Post by laughingeyes on Mar 12, 2008 10:26:09 GMT -6
WhiteEagle , We are very sorry to here that about your step father Terry, God be with you and the Family . hope your back get's better , i know what you are going though with your back. You and family will be in our prayers.
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Post by Annie Fawn on Apr 3, 2008 15:04:30 GMT -6
I'm so sorry to hear that Terry died! He was such a nice man. How is your mom holding up? Is there anything that we can do to help?
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Post by Unega Uwohali Waya Adkins on Apr 4, 2008 0:34:43 GMT -6
My mother and I having very hard time for weeks without my father........ We never forget him on and off offten......
I can't think good sometimes, my memories is almost gone because of crisis with my families are having arguing each others..... My mother and I crying on and off for long time..........
[edited due my mother can't come in and post to us.........she don't use computer much]
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Post by kinshoni on Apr 4, 2008 10:03:52 GMT -6
I'm sorry to hear on the passing of your stepdad....grieving isnt just about missing the person, there are various stages like guilt, blame,anger, hurt, accepting. Learning to do things without that person being part of it anymore is hard , but it gets easier in time (it doesnt mean you have forgot them ,you can never forget them ). "White Eagle"...please cry when you need to ,let the grieving out.....the reason i say this is,...i didnt (when my mother died ) & i became ill through it (for a time ). hope you dont mind me saying all that . anyway,i give you & your mum a hug ok .
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Post by Unega Uwohali Waya Adkins on Apr 12, 2008 16:40:40 GMT -6
Thank you for kind words, kinshoni. You were right all about that. I had very ill but now I'm getting better but my mother still very upset and stressing because of A LOT of paper work to do from the Air Force company that give her VERY, VERY hard time that is not right...... I am VERY angry at them who done to my mother...... Finally, they'll giving the money to my mother then she will put the money in her bank, that's for taking care of her, me, my brother and 2 sisters but my mother still keep busy with the paper work for long time, I'm not sure how long time, I'll ask her. She said she don't have time to post back to us. I told her that is fine, no problems. I will take care of everything for her. She gave me newspaper about Terry with photo in a glossy light yellow (antique style color) thin cardboard, to protect it from aging or scratch surface. I'll put it in a very special frame artwork and hang on the wall in my living room. My real name is Patrick Richard, the newspaper said: [/SIZE][/QUOTE] And my brother Jim Richard put a prayer information on the back of the card to showing us:
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Post by Deleted on Apr 13, 2008 6:40:44 GMT -6
I am sorry to hear of your loss,White Eagle, I understand what you are going through as I have lost family members as well as losing a son. It takes time and prayers, its easier to think of the good times even though they will make you cry. It has been almost 9 yrs since my son passed and there are times when I miss him so I want to be with him. Take care and be strong!
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Post by Lone4eagle on Apr 16, 2008 20:21:46 GMT -6
Terry had an interesting life...hope things improve for your Mon, White Eagle. Last year was such a hard time for many of us. Our prayers be with you.
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